The Beginning

Let us start at the very beginning. This was my first post in my journal at DD. so naive at that point looking back. So much has changed. It’s changed from asking for help to giving it. Giving help, to creating a guide. So without further delay.. Let us start from the beginning.


I’ve been following the 12 month program for a while now and suppose I should ask if anyone can tell me what
I should expect over the next few months to year, or what point I
might achieve incontinience.

At this point I’ve been wearing 24/7 for 2.5 months. I urinate at the slightest
urge. I keep my sphinter muscles relaxed at all times. A couple days ago I had first accident while not wearing a
diaper. I wake up a few times a night to wet the bed, (although drinking LOTS of water before bed).

It is fairly easy to wet in any position at this point. What can I expect over the next few months, in the next year? At what point will I become incontinent? Is there a point of no return, that is where it will not be safe for me not to wear a diaper and/or have irreversible physical changes?

Thanks in advance!

PS: Before we start a flame war here i want to state the reason of wearing is
due to mental stability. I suffer from bipolar depression which has led to loss of job and hospitilization more
than once. I’ve found that by wearing diapers on a daily basis it keeps me stable, from going over the edge. Diapers are a a copong mechanism if you will, Its all for comfort and security and has never been a sexual fetish for me.

Comments, questions, and concerns are always welcome.



Hello, and welcome to this section of the blog. My name is Blake, though on DD I’m known as BlakeJordan. The purpose of this section is to give you insight and a first hand testimony and view of just what the journey to incontinence is really like. Sure we have all read or at least heard of the 12 month guide. Though that is just a starting point, and leaves many holes and pieces of information missing. I have a thread over at DD called “What to Expect”. It started out as a way of looking for help, as well as what one could expect in their day to day life as they go through this journey.

This is actually my second attempt at this and I am nearing the halfway point, if I haven’t already passed it. So not to confuse anyone I want to give you a heads up of what is to come. I’m going to be migrating over any relevant posts from my thread to this blog, in the next few weeks. I will try to rewrite them as needed, for the clarity of this section. The story will start at the beginning. Nearly two years ago and will go from there.

With the amount of information and knowledge that I have accumulated over the years, as well as the extensive posting and feedback I have gotten so far just from my thread at DailyDiapers, the thread itself has mutated into a way to create a guide. Something that will fill in all the gaps left by the 12 month guide, as well as get extremely extensive for those that are having troubles.

The guide itself will be formatted as follows.
Main Guide 20-40 pages.
FAQ 30-40 questions.
Troubleshooting/Advanced Guide 20-30 guides.
A rewritten copy of my journal. Both from here and DD.

Unlike the 12 month guide that was static, this guide will have a home for life. A website and PDF version will be kept up to date with the latest info. As well as anyone can contribute, either by forum on the site, or e-mail directly to me.

In the coming days and weeks you will see an influx of posts as everything gets brought over from my thread. One of my main goals is to get as much feedback as possible, I will try to stay current with all posts, answering questions and participating as issues, questions, and comments come up.

I encourage everyone here to ask anything that comes to mind. Don’t be shy. This will help me create the most complete resource that I can for this community.

For anyone that wants the original version, unedited. My journal at DD can be found here

I can be reached via email at Blake@BecomeIncontinent with any personal questions or comments.

I thank everyone in advance and look forward to settling in here.


Save Express

Save Express thats is a place that i have bean wont to visit over a long time. Because i know from the website there i bought most of the diapers i use from and i know lots of peoples like to shop from this place to. The have lots of kind of diapers in the store so the storage need to kind of big if you thinking about all the order the gets very day. I wounder how many that can be? And how many trucks did the gets every day whit new diapers?

I cam across some amazing pitchers on there Facbook page that i wont to upload here:

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like you see on this pitcher that i found on there Facbook page the have lots of adult diapers in there warehouse. should be so nice to lock around in this place and pick out what type of diaper that you wont to take whit you home. And maybe have some nice conversation whit the staff in the store about what type of product that i should bought :)

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What we can see from the pitcher it is allot of people that are waiting to receive there diaper orders. And think may orders that i have bean mad have bean at this waiting spot to. Thats awesome thing :) Do you not agree?

Maybe i have the chance to see this store for real some time. Thats is one of may dreams and i think many peoples have that dream :)

Hmm? Somthing feels odd…

Hmm? Somthing feels odd...

“Something feels a bit off here but I can’t quite put my finger on it… My diaper feels a bit heavier but maybe that’s just me…”

Draw by:  Fangthefox

Please not this is not a drawing that i have made and the character is not me.


Nothing to worry about if this really was the case you are going to smell something soon to. And if you dont do that you can relax and wait and continue doing what you were doing. And remember you have a nice puffy diaper on so it is nothing to worry about here.

And i think you have improve you art style. This art looking very nice and good.Nice work.

TENA Super Briefs

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Added absorbency for maximum and nighttime protection and extended wear. Maximum security against leakage, and suitable for fecal incontinence. Now featuring hook tabs for unlimited refastening to ensure a secure, comfortable fit around the body. Can be continually readjusted without tearing the product. TENA Super Briefs also feature the InstaDri Skin-Caring System™ technology for outstanding dryness, with dual core technology that rapidly absorbs urine and retains it away from the body. Soft nonwoven backsheet for wearer comfort and dignity.


  • InstaDri Skin-Caring System™ improves surface dryness, promoting healthier skin with a transfer layer. Dry-Fast Core™ technology and strategic placement of Superabsorbent microbeads.
  • Blue target absorption zone provides extra protection where needed the most to quickly lock in liquids and odor, promoting drier, healthier skin with dignity and discretion.
  • Soft, nonwoven backsheet is gentle against the skin and less noisy, providing improved comfort and greater dignity.
  • Moisture-proof lining protects clothing and linen against wetness and is color coded for correct product selection.
  • Patented curved elastics provide a better fit, enhanced leakage protection and more comfort.
  • Wetness indicator alerts caregivers that the brief has been soiled and needs to be checked.
  • Hook fasteners promote easy handling and unlimited refastenability.


Have any won try this diapers? Should be nice to know how there are if the are any good diapers? Is it different compare to Tena slip maxi?