ABDL Coach


How do you come up whit this ide to the site ?

I was looking at getting into life coaching for a bit, when it clicked that there were a lot of people on the forums of AB/DL sites that were asking questions and not receiving any help. It seemed like a logical idea since no one was currently out there helping people through this type of lifestyle. There are so many questions, concerns and just general discussions that people need help with everyday and I knew I could help fill that void.

How do you get the idea of the cute teddy bear pitcher you have on the
I was looking for a logo to use and came across the Teddy bear on a logo website. It was the perfect fit for me and far better than the dinosaur idea that I was originally going to go with.

How many years have you work whit this website?

I just started the website in the last few months, so I’m still in my start up phase, but everything is going great so far.

How many visitors do you have every day?

Right now I’m averaging around 85 unique visitors to the site each day and growing.


What is the price for the service?

You can find the price info that we have at this moment on this web page:

How many qustions do you get every day?

It varies day to day, but I would say I average about 6-10 emails a day from customers.

How many people have you help?

Since the site is still fairly new, I am somewhere around 15 people that I have helped out so far. I’m hoping I’ll be able to reach even more people with the release of the E-book next month.

What is the biggest problem for most people to understand?

So far the biggest area people seem to need help with is relationships, primarily with telling their significant other and getting them to partake in the lifestyle.

Are people free to ask all kind of questions?

Absolutely! I don’t want to limit anyone to a specific topic, I will do my best to answer each and every question that people throw my way. If I’m unable to answer something I will be sure to let them know.

Are you the only one that answer the questions?

Right now I am the only one that answers the questions, but my girlfriend (who is into the lifestyle too) may answer some questions in the future if people would like that. I know it could be helpful to have a female perspective of the lifestyle too.

If you are alone have you think about to get help from some one else
that have expereince about this to?

If things were to pick up a lot, I would definitely consider having someone else help out. I want to make sure they are the right fit though, it’s not always easy to give proper guidance to people and there’s a lot at stake with people’s relationships and families involved, so I need to be sure anyone providing coaching services is able to help others properly.

Is it most male the send you the qustions?

So far the bulk of my questions appear to be from males, however, since I do allow anonymity, I can’t be 100% sure of that. I want people to be comfortable with who they are, so if they want to be referred to as a baby girl when they’re really an adult male, that’s perfectly fine by me. I try to embrace the persons individuality as much as possible, because that’s what makes this job great! I love to meet new people and interact with others in the AB/DL world.

Are it any different betwhen the qustions thats comes from male or

The questions seem to be quite different, the males so far have been mostly asking about how to get their partner into the lifestyle or how to manage telling someone about their fetish. The few questions I’ve received from females seem to be more focused on how they can better understand their husbands or boyfriends lifestyle choice.


How about your self are you AB or DL to?

I consider myself mostly a DL, but have gotten into the AB side of things from time to time. I do have some pacifiers and bottles, and even enjoy a onesie and footy pjs from time to time.

How do you come up with the idea of the E-book?

When I was considering the AB/DL coaching site, I thought it would be a great idea to provide a single resource for people to be able to go to for relationship advice with the AB/DL Lifestyle and what better medium than an E-book? People can read it at their leisure, review it as necessary, and there’s nothing else like it out there to help people.

What field do the E-bock cover?

The E-book covers a wide array of relationship material, some of the topics include:
* Who to Tell
* The Risk of Telling
* Getting others to wear (several situations are outlined with suggestions on how to conquer each)
* When you should avoid telling someone
* Choosing the right wording
* Special tactics on how to tell someone
* Finding out if they already know & what to do about it.

Have you any plans to expand your service in the future?

I don’t have any immediate plans to expand the services, but I am always open to new ideas, so if anyone has a suggestion please feel free to send me a message through the site. My girlfriend and I are considering writing another E-Book about how to create your own cloth diapers, so hopefully people would be interested in that.


I would like to thank Chris the owner of abdlcoach.com for the time he have taken to help me whit this blog post about his site.


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2 thoughts on “ABDL Coach”

  1. Before I’d go to this site and request Chris to be my “Coach” I’d want to know more about him, what experience he has and why he thinks he’s good at answering my questions.

  2. Hi Baby Inky,

    You have a very valid concern, so to help address that, I’ll tell you a bit more about myself. I have been in the AB/DL Lifestyle for ten years. Over that time I have successfully gotten 5 women to wear with me, a couple of them for long term relationships, others for shorter periods. I’ve been through a lot during that time, I’ve been laughed at when telling people about it and experienced some very negative reactions, but I’ve almost always gotten them back into things. Outside of that, I’ve been able to manage the lifestyle successfully with my professional life which has me helping people on daily basis through life crisis’.

    The aim of my site is not to provide everyone with the end all be all solution to every problem they may encounter, but rather to help provide them guidance in an area they may not be able to openly discuss with others. My services may not be for everyone, but for those that don’t have anyone to talk to, or can’t get good responses on any of the forums, I’ll be there to hopefully help them out. I’m always available through my site if anyone wants to talk more about how I can help them before purchasing any services. I will also monitor this post for a few weeks if anyone would like to talk.


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